In this article, Cynthia Nelson discussed the importance of introducing this controversial topic of queer, gay, lesbian, and transgender into teaching. She writes that it is very important that we be aware of this issue in our classrooms, as this issue is occuring more often in our society. Nelson advocates that teachers should use more of a queer “mindset” rather than a gay/lesbian “mindset” when observing students. She believes that a queer mindset would allow more openmindedness with teachers, as opposed to discriminating and looking down on students are are of a different sexual orientation.
This topic is a very delicate and complex matter. Many people are “coming out” in this society, and at a younger age. More people are open to this idea and are becoming more accepting. However, there are those people who are opposed to this lifestyle. Many people opposed have difficulty with this acceptance for many different reasons.
For myself, as I was reading through this article, I had difficulty knowing the difference between queer and gay/lesbian. I had always thought that queer was the overarching umbrella with the other categories underneath it. Even after reading the article, I am still slightly confused, but I do know that I need to be accepting of my students no matter what gender they identify themselves with. I also recognize the need to address these issues if they do come up. Although I may not be completely comfortable talking about it, I do realize that this is a common issue and needs to be addressed.
Also, when the author was giving the example of two people of the same gender walking arm in arm, it made me think about my time abroad. I have been to Germany twice and Russia once, and I know that in Europe it is common to see two males linking arms. This behavior is socially acceptable in some parts of the world, and simply because we come from a different culture does not mean that we should automatically jump to conclusions when we do see this happen. If anything, I know that I should not judge a book by its cover. Many people have surprised me by being totally different than they showed in their first impression. The same goes for students who may or may not be queer. I need to think about how I am going to handle myself in this situation and accept the student for who they are as a person and not what they are.